Tag Archives: personality triggers

Boost Your Habit of Mind, Reset to Wonderful 

Posted on June 18, 2017 by Diane Langlois Stallings

Do you ever wake up with the glimmering of a message inside you? A gift on the doorstep of your awareness, left by whatever happened while you slept? So I woke up realizing that 70% of my waking hours are … Continue reading →

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Tension – Armor – Relaxation

Posted on October 27, 2016 by Diane Langlois Stallings

Tension is who you think you should be, Relaxation is who you are.  (–Chinese proverb)   I love this line. What kind of tensions do we wear? How long does it take to get tired of wearing them? Our personal … Continue reading →

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Is it You or Me, bugging me?

Posted on August 14, 2016 by Diane Langlois Stallings

Why did I wake up grumpy? Oh, ‘cuz there’s a chronic grump inside somewhere? Wait, it’s that old grudge about X?  That thing so far under my skin , it’s like, invisible? And itchy? And I keep thinking it’s Their fault, so … Continue reading →

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Miracle Yup – Inspiration for a Perfectionist

Posted on February 15, 2016 by Diane Langlois Stallings

Yesterday, Valentine’s Day, a miracle happened. Does the Universe talk to you, like it does to me?  No kidding. There I was, Miss Perfectionist as ever (see Enneagram personalities), falling into my familiar self-imposed ditch. See, the challenge of real … Continue reading →

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Hide the Dark Side? Embrace Your Shadow

Posted on October 30, 2015 by Diane Langlois Stallings

What do we push against? I don’t know about you, but I clamp down and reject my undesirable parts. Many years ago, (pre-enneagram), I believed I was smooth, not angry.  Irritated, maybe, but not mad. I would gently coach 13 … Continue reading →

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Your Personality Cage (Enneagram) and Freedom For You

Posted on October 16, 2014 by Diane Langlois Stallings

To get free, first you gotta see the cage you’re in (your personality type).Here’s a mouthful: Enneagram.  It means “9 drawing” but it’s Greek to us 😉Yet every day we bump into these nine personality types.  Soft bumps, hard bumps.  When … Continue reading →

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Step Out of the Box (Your Habit of Mind)

Posted on August 20, 2014 by Diane Langlois Stallings

I got stuck again in the box of my own mind.  Habit-of-mind is unique to each of us, yet follows the pattern of our personality.  (See Arizona Enneagram Association) My name is Diane, and my Habit is Perfectionism.About 1 in … Continue reading →

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