Tag Archives: habit of mind

Perfection is Pure-Fiction – Set Yourself Free from the Cage

Posted on August 8, 2021 by Diane Langlois Stallings

My name is Diane, and my Habit is Perfectionism.About 1 in 9 of us have this core habit – the other 8 get to have something else, on the wheel of the Enneagram personality types.  My mind nags: “Gotta fix … Continue reading →

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Why Is That Big Aggravation Stuck on You? 

Posted on May 19, 2019 by Diane Langlois Stallings

Except for that one thorn in my side, life is fine, right? Why do I keep hanging onto that one thing that bugs me ? There must be a good reason around here somewhere. The “symptom imperative” is a term … Continue reading →

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Boost Your Habit of Mind, Reset to Wonderful 

Posted on June 18, 2017 by Diane Langlois Stallings

Do you ever wake up with the glimmering of a message inside you? A gift on the doorstep of your awareness, left by whatever happened while you slept? So I woke up realizing that 70% of my waking hours are … Continue reading →

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How You BEEEEE?

Posted on April 23, 2017 by Diane Langlois Stallings

I’m trying to make sense of advice given to me by an elevated being. (He would say there is no hierarchy, but I would say he’s darned close to total unconditional love).  This minister naturopath physician traveler philosopher, Dr. Peebles, told … Continue reading →

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Is Your Ego Sandpaper a Blessing in Disguise?

Posted on April 9, 2017 by Diane Langlois Stallings

Ever notice how the people closest to you sandpaper your ego? I think it’s in the Plan, to smooth out our rough edges. Merrily you roll until this abrasion sideswipes you. Ouch.  Throws you into turmoil, as I know so … Continue reading →

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Secret Happy-Key: Skilled Attention

Posted on June 30, 2015 by Diane Langlois Stallings

Not a secret, but we tend to forget: We can focus our own attention, to lighten up. Thank goodness the mind can go to only one place at a time.
So break the troubling focus and send your attention to anything that feels better. Continue reading →

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Your Personality Cage (Enneagram) and Freedom For You

Posted on October 16, 2014 by Diane Langlois Stallings

To get free, first you gotta see the cage you’re in (your personality type).Here’s a mouthful: Enneagram.  It means “9 drawing” but it’s Greek to us 😉Yet every day we bump into these nine personality types.  Soft bumps, hard bumps.  When … Continue reading →

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Step Out of the Box (Your Habit of Mind)

Posted on August 20, 2014 by Diane Langlois Stallings

I got stuck again in the box of my own mind.  Habit-of-mind is unique to each of us, yet follows the pattern of our personality.   My name is Diane, and my Habit is Perfectionism.About 1 in 9 of us have … Continue reading →

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